Abuja, Nigeria — A Nigerian man based in Nairobi, Kenya, Mr. Okafor Obinwanne Nnadozie, has filed a petition to the Deputy Inspector General of Police at the Force Criminal Investigation Department, Area 10 Abuja, alleging serious marital, personal, and legal infractions against his kinsman, Engr. Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro.
In the petition, addressed to the Deputy Commissioner of Police, Gender Unit, Mr. Nnadozie recounted how his marriage to Mrs. Sylvia Chibuzo Okafor was allegedly wrecked by Engr. Okubuiro, who he described as his marriage godfather and a member of his kindred in Umuowushi, Umuihi, Ihitte/Uboma Local Government Area of Imo State.
Mr. Nnadozie accused Engr. Okubuiro of engaging in an adulterous affair with his wife, a situation that eventually led to the collapse of his marriage and the subsequent denial of access to his three children: Uchechi, Somtochukwu, and Chidiebube Okafor.
According to the petition, the relationship between Engr. Okubuiro and Mrs. Okafor reportedly began while the marriage was still intact, with allegations of undue influence, intimidation, and legal manipulation to frustrate Mr. Nnadozie’s defense in court. The petition further claims that Ndubuisi’s driver was responsible for regularly transporting Mrs. Okafor during court proceedings.
Following a court ruling on June 26, 2024, which officially dissolved the marriage, Mr. Nnadozie alleges that Engr. Okubuiro celebrated the verdict in his village, presenting it as a personal victory. He also claims that Okubuiro circulated copies of the judgment to numerous individuals to divert attention from the underlying affair.
The situation reportedly escalated when, in August 2024, Engr. Okubuiro and Mrs. Okafor relocated to Abuja with the children, allegedly without the father’s consent, and continued to live together. In November 2024, the pair reportedly held a traditional marriage ceremony, despite Engr. Okubuiro’s existing marriage to Mrs. Nkechi Okubuiro.
In his letter, Mr. Nnadozie expressed deep emotional and psychological distress, recounting how the events forced him to flee Nigeria for Kenya to preserve his mental health. He lamented being denied access to his children and shared concerns about the children’s welfare and safety, holding Engr. Okubuiro responsible for any misfortune that might befall them.
Mr. Nnadozie further alleged that Engr. Okubuiro had issued a statement through his lawyer to an online television organisation, falsely claiming that the marriage had ended two years prior to the court’s actual pronouncement, an attempt Mr. Nnadozie described as a cover-up of the ongoing affair.
The petitioner called on the Nigerian Police Force to intervene in the matter, enforce justice, and help reunite him with his children. He also expressed willingness to return to Nigeria and appear in court to testify regarding his claims.
As at press time, neither Engr. Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro nor Mrs. Sylvia Chibuzo Okafor had publicly responded to these allegations.
Read petition to Anglican Church and Response:
C/o St. Cyprian Anglican Church Umuihi.
Etiti Parish.
8th February, 2025.
Panel of enquiry,
Council of knights
Okigwe South Diocese.
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PETITION AGAINST NDUBUISI CHUKWUMA OKUBUIRO (KSC)
My name is Mr. Okafor Obinwanne Nnadozie, a native of Umuihi, Ihitte//Uboma Local Government Area of Imo State.
Sir, Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro(KSC) and I are from Umuowishi, a kindred in Umuihi, literally referred to as ‘family’ where him and I eat and drink from one keg as Kinsmen.
In January 2012, I and Egbe Sylvia Chibuzo got married according to rights and tradition of her kindred, Umuoparakuru in Umuakagu Nsu, Ehime Mbano L.G.A, where she hails from. We wedded traditionally in the presence of her parents who were both alive.
On the first of April, 2013, I and Mrs. Egbe Sylvia Chibuzo, wedded in St. Syprians Anglican Church, Umuhii, of which Sir Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro and his wife; Lady Nkechi Okubuiro stood and signed our marriage certificate as our sponsor. This was presided over by Ven. C.C Akaniro.
On the 22nd of December, 2015, I traveled abroad, and in February 2017 I rented an apartment in Port Harcourt, relocated my wife and three children from Aba.
On the 2nd of June 2017, I visited home. While in my apartment in Port Harcourt with my family I woke up one morning and asked my wife if Nudubuisi (our marriage Godfather) had ever made any dirty advances on her, but she quickly refuted it with a loud countenance and asked why I should even think about such, I had to apologize immediately. After my period of stay with my family, I went back to Asia.
On January 31st 2019, I came back again to Nigeria and had already initiated plans to relocate to USA with my wife and children. I was no longer comfortable staying without them. I took them to immigration office Port Harcourt and applied for passports which was delayed until August 2019. In the process of our Visa entry, Covid-19 set in, and a lot of conditions had affected the chances of securing Visa.
As I was living with my family in Port Harcourt I realized that Ndubuisi who signed our marriage certificate as an undertaking to morally support my marriage was instead cohabiting with my wife. At this point she would constantly tell me lies of her movements while she had found her way to meet Ndubuisi.
On many occasions, Ndubuisi would drive with her to his family residence in Umuowushi and spend entire weekend with her whereas his own family were in Port Harcourt. He was never afraid should anything bad happened to her in his companion. He was not afraid should his security man, his drivers, even neigbours around his village residence report what they were doing.
Whenever his family returned back to village, he would switch his adulterous activities to his residence in Port Harcourt.
At a stage I went to him to report about my wife’s sudden change in behavior, which I later regretted because I realized I was really taking my case to the wrong panel.
On September 2019, he asked my wife to lie to me that she wanted to go for a market survey in Lagos for a business. He rather took her on Arik Air, flew to Lagos, on the 30th October 2019, lodged at Royal Jato Hotels, Resmon Street, Ajao Estate for four days. Believing I didn’t know she went with this man.
At this stage I had gotten restless about them and decided to put a recorder in my room whenever I was making a trip out of Port Harcourt, which recorded most of their private conversations. After listening to most of their phone calls, I cut off all ties with ‘Sir Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (KSC)’. I stopped eating from same pot with my wife. On one occasion, I and my wife went physical and she got hospitalized. Ndubuisi had seen red signs and stopped visiting me or calling.
they locked me up in Police custody where I spent 2 days. From that very 25th of February 2020, as I and my wife were then best of enemies inside same apartment, Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C), then had an unrestricted access to her, she would then go out and spend as long as she wished. She always referred to Sir Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C) as ‘sweetheart’ while on their private calls.
On one of her conversations with her immediate elder sister Ugochi, she was angry with Ugochi for telling their most elderly sister Chioma that people were already, talking about her cohabiting with Ndubuisi and Ugochi was cautioning her against it.
In September 2020, Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C) rented her an apartment and she left me, took our three children with her.
I even met Ndubuisi near his office around mother-cat, we sat down and I asked mother-cat, we sat down and I asked him why he was doing all this but to my greatest surprised he never denied cohabitating with my wife, even their trip to Lagos.
After one year since she had left me, my in-laws started coming to my house in the village for reconciliation. I once on an occasion, told them that their sister/daughter was still cohabiting /sleeping with Ndubuisi and for that reason I had seen no repentance or regret in her of her actions.
Towards May 2022, State High Court Owerri served me of a divorce by my wife Okafor Sylvia Chibuzo, on which she filled for child custody and support.
For about a period of two years while we were still appearing in Court, Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C)’s driver (Itoro, from Akwa-Ibom) was the one bringing her to the Court premises and in most of the occasions with Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C)’s personal car.
Court granted her children custody and asked us to meet out of Court to discuss the best way to take care of the children. As we met in presence of my Attorney and her Attorney, she refuse my request to take my children on a one week vacation any period of their school holidays. This was how she spoilt the opportunity I had to always reunite with my children, rather that I can only meet them in her presence and to leave after the meeting. On one of the Court sittings my children were asked by the judge who was their dad and my second child answered ‘Ndubuisi Okubuiro’; same man I even deposited in Court that he was cohabiting with my wife.
On 27th June 2024, I was informed by a friend that Court had closed our case, meanwhile I was not notified prior to this final judgement date.
Sir Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C) had tagged his wife Nkechi Okubuiro an irresponsible woman just because she fought to stop him from his adulterous adventure with my wife.
While he sponsored my wife to get a divorce in Court, he sent his own wife away in total separation, all in preparation to seal his marriage dream with my wife since 2016.
These two have lived together since he destroyed my marriage and pulled her away from me.
What do we call this?
A Nollywood movie or that Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C) has been struck by the gods?
Please compel this man to return my children, he has changed their names to his, and turning them against me. He moved my three children to Abuja where he relocated to after recent marriage with my ex-wife on the 23rd November, 2024.
Now that I am yet to take laws into my hands, please he should be forced back to a reasonable mental state.
Sir Ndubuisi Chukwuma Okubuiro (K.S.C) has lied and lied until he lost sense of decency and Godliness, hence reduced himself to be destroyed by his notorious quest for sleeping with a woman he signed her marriage certificate at the altar as her marriage sponsor.
I look forward to getting justice now that I have not resorted to seeking solution in my own possible means.
Yours sincerely,
Okafor Obinwanne Nnadozie
Umuwarie (Umunne),Umuowushi, Umuihi.
C/o St. Cyprian Ang. Church Umuihi
Etitit Parish
8th February, 2025
The Panel of Inquiry
Council of Knights
Okigwe South Diocese
Attn: Sir G.C. Osigwe,
RE: REPONSE FROM NDUBUISI C. OKUBUIRO
In response to Ndubuisi Okubuiro’s reply to my petition against him dated 24th December, 2025 I write as follows:
My petition submitted to the council of Knights solely on the grounds of Ndubuisi’s attitude of (infidelity), adultery while I was still with Sylvia Chibuzo Okafor as my married wife. My petition against Ndubuisi Okubuiro only referred to our divorce case at the state high court as one of the numerous events that have taken place since “according to him”, he assumed my position in the marriage, and beyond. I strongly believe the council of Knights can never be distracted by Ndubuisi’s gimmicks and lies. I doubt if I and my lawyer appeared in court more than 6 times as the case was delayed until I travelled out of Nigeria when there was an obvious threat on my life. The remaining sittings, and even the judgment was concluded in the absence of both I, and my attorney, a clear consequence that I allegedly abandoned my case, of which I am yet to response to legally. From his rhetoric’s, do you need a soothsayer to tell you that Ndubuisi was really the man divorcing me in proxy, man behind the scene.
I never abandoned my family, as Ndubuisi alleges on his response. Rather in 2018, I reported to my inlaws via facebook messenger that my wife blocked my communication contacts with her because I told her to learn to appreciate my efforts. This was during the burial of my late father inlaw, when I gave her N475,000 as my contribution but he needed more.
It’s obvious Ndubuisi has now resorted to fabricating anything in his brain just to present me as a bad fellow. I was never deported from Malaysia, and I have my letter of exist from Kuala Lumpur, and my stamped passport with me.
I had no plan of traveling again without my family as at 2019, because that was the period I was making arrangements to relocate to USA with my wife and children. It was on this accession I took my wife and children to Nigerian Immigration PH paid and processed their passports. Sylvia ran away with her own passport but I still have those of my wife and children. The date on these passports will further implicate Ndubuisi lies just to cover his evil atrocity against me.
My wife left my house and ran away in September 2020, as opposed to Ndubuisi’s 2019. Prior to this Ndubuisi’s cohabition with Sylvia had been exposed by people of Umuihi, Ven. (Arch) Godson Osuagwu (of blessed memory) confronted him at this same period, scolded him but as usual, he told him lies, I am surprised he’s now saying that he’s just shocked, very funny. Is he now telling me that reporting him to late Ven. Godson Osuagwu was not enough?
Ndubuisi is telling lies about my deposition at the court, as a copy of my response at the court is here attached to further expose him, as his name is there in my deposition as cohabiting with Sylvia my wife. My inlaws came to my house in 2021 about two different accessions without informing me, and I only heard from my brother who lives in the village of their coming. On their very last appointment with me, we met at their family residence, and I told them Sylvia was still cohabiting with Ndubuisi, no need of them pretending in the guise to make peace.
Ndubuisi is now telling you that Sylvia has re-married, and I got agitated, is he kidding me? Why does he find it so difficult to tell the council who Sylvia got married to? He has been living with Sylvia for years, and has no moral justification to say I abandoned my family. Ndubuisi ran to do his so called traditional marriage when he realized that Sylvia was pregnant, and prior to this event, they had relocated to Abuja for about four months, emptied their new residence at Peter Odili driver off Woji P.H. so talking about their shameless marriage in which no body in Umuihi was in attendance is a mere ploy, to drive home his attempt to make you believe he started sleeping with Sylvia today.
I still repeat: Ndubuisi sent his wife away because she was fighting his cohabiting with Sylvia, even at the burial of Ndubuisi’s father, Nkechi chased Sylvia away and a lot of people witnessed the ugly scene.
The Umuowushi day is an event that is always covered by a camera man. I don’t know why Ndubuisi is so much focused on a video coverage of this annual event. I can’t remember who the camera man they hired is. If Ndubuisi has issues with any Mr. Ogbonna, he should please go and settle with him, and stop chasing shadows.
Ndubuisi tells you (Council of knights) that he was not my marriage Godfather; himmm! At this point I am totally dumbfounded at his recklessness in lies, even in the house of God. Anyway I attached copies of the pictures taken on that day, and even the video is still in my shelve. I don’t want to waste time on that. He also says I am not from same kindred with him please what is Umuowushi which is an integral part of Umuihi called? Two members of Umuowushi are referred to as what?
As opposed to Ndubuisi’s claim that I had always called or visited him for purpose of help, this is very strange to me. I have never asked him for help in my entire life outside when I gave him my CV. in 2009, and when I went to his village house in December 2012 to ash him stand as my marriage sponsor, of which he obliged instantly in front of his wife.
In 2016, my sister Chinwe made no such call. And I never abandoned my wife and children. I was training my wife in Abia State Polytechnic, and she just rounded up before I travelled, I just resigned from ISOPADEC Owerri my former place of work, before I travelled out in 22nd December, 2015. My wife was living with her single sister Ugochi in a 2 bedroom and palour apartment and both of them were students in Abia Poly. My last son David was born on 3rd December, 2015, and I bailed them from the hospital, left enough money with her before my travel. While these were all happening, Ndubuisi was never a party to it, and I never called him for help or communicated him as regards to how I was running my family. Please ask Ndubuisi where he got all this lies from.
In May, 2020 I met Ndubuisi at mother Cat, near his office in P.H where he was defending himself and begging me that he doesn’t want more scandal concerning him and my wife, asking why I reported him to Ven. Godson Osuagwu. The story of his adultery with Sylvia had gone viral as at then. No matter how hard he tries to hide under written papers, he can never run away from God’s punishment. I still repeat, in October, 30th, 2019, Ndubuisi made a trip to Lagos on Ariki air, with my wife Sylvia and lodged in a hotel room for four days. He was in Paris ( as he told me) in October, 2018, not 2019.
You said that Nkechi your wife hinted you of my challenges in 2019, it’s a lie, tell the council what Nkechi asked you. That was when she showed you my message to her, and subsequently Ven. (Pa) Godson Osuagwu met and scolded you asking you to stay away from my wife. No matter your lies, the truth shall never be silenced for too long.
Ndubuisi says I came back from Malaysia empty handed, funny. I initiated my family trip to USA for the purpose of separating Sylvia from Ndubuisi, to avail myself of the shame they had brought on me already. Did I beg him for sponsorship of my wife and children’s passports which I already processed, did I ask him a dime during the visa process, before the USA restriction policy on visas which was to cause me N10,000,000 in average .
He says I came back empty, but I gifted him a new Samsung smartphone worth of N310,000, a sandals slipon worth N35,000 a pair of Jeen trouser worth of N18,000, a T-shirt worthy of N12,000 and also gifted his wife too all as at January, 2019 when I landed here in the country. The property I bought at Eneka in Rivers State was recommended by Ndubuisi, and attached overleaf are the front page, and signatory pages, you Ndubuisi signed as my witness. In 2017,Ndubuisi borrowed the sum of #3,000,000 from the funds I left with my wife without my permission. I only got to know about it at the point I needed to use the money to attend to some projects here in Nigeria. This they did severally without my permission and knowledge. Continue your lies, but it will never last.
You say I abandoned wife and children, in 2019, and you write that Sylvia parked my house properties and absconded with them. Please sir, is it the tradition in your Okubuiro’s family for a woman to park her husband house properties; TV; generator, dinning table/Chairs, aluminum ladder, all kitchen utensils, ceiling fans, cutting bed and mattresses, mirror stand, decoder machine, and etc and run? In fact she did . this in September, 2020 when she found out, I was renting a 3-bedroom apartment in Owerri, I used police to recover only generator, and refrigerator, TV got damaged as she did not handle it with care. She had no intention of coming with me to live in Owerri. He rented her a house in PH and encouraged her to run with my properties.
Although you lie, please sir, does the fact that you lived together with your own wife and children for donkey years make her a good wife to you? Hence saying that I have not spent more than one week with my wife and children. Please tell the council that I am not the one that married her. Trying to harmonize your lies with the reality is just like trying to wake a buried dead body. I have an audio clip of your Lagos trip plans and I will forward them to this you were in paris.
My children told judge in court (my first son was left in P.H) That you Ndubuisi was their dad, because they had seen you sleeping with their moon in same room for so long since Sylvia packed in with= you in the house you rented.
Judge never shouted me down, your so called new wife is not even telling you the truth. He only looked through the window when I pointed at your driver Itoro who you gave order to be bringing Sylvia to court on your cars.
That custody of children was given to Sylvia does not translate that they should be in your custody who has destroyed my marriage, and declared me your star enemy.
In his Reply, Ndubuisi admitted that he married my Wife in November 2024 after our marriage was dissolved by the Court. But can Ndubuisi legally marry my Wife or any other woman while his marriage to Lady Nkechi Okubuiro is still subsisting. He took an Oath to be a husband to one wife on the day of his investiture as a Knight of the Church. He failed to attach any document to support his position that his marriage with his wife has collapsed before he married my wife. By stating that he got married to my wife in November 2024 makes the work of this Committee very easy in arriving at just and fair decision in this matter.
In summary, I still refer to my petition of 24th December, 2024 for this revered council of knights to delve in and save both Anglican Communion and I from the shame this man has brought on us before the public.
Yours Beloved Son,
Okafor Obinwanne Nnadozie
